Enter the grade you don't feel like you could beat...for me, it would be whatever grade you started spelling. Today I sent out an email to some people to just let them know the blog had TONS of updates and I titled the email "Mitchell Mahem"...NO ONE replied and told me I spelled it wrong (and spellcheck doesn't check the titles)...so I guess spelling is part of the mayhem. Oh, and then I realized after looking it up that the definition wasn't what I wanted. Oh well, forgive me.
I'm sure my mother will comment that I come by it naturally.